Comments on: As loved ones mourn 3 teen victims, police look for answers in fatal crash near Stuart http://www.tcoasttalk.com/2009/08/05/as-loved-ones-mourn-wreck-victims-police-look-for-answers/ Martin and St. Lucie County News, Comments, Discussion Sat, 20 Mar 2010 06:57:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: RPC http://www.tcoasttalk.com/2009/08/05/as-loved-ones-mourn-wreck-victims-police-look-for-answers/comment-page-1/#comment-16848 RPC Tue, 11 Aug 2009 02:02:20 +0000 http://www.tcoasttalk.com/?p=7056#comment-16848 Im a junior at southfork. Graver was a good freind of mine, we had been freinds since we were at murray middle, he was and still is one of the best kids ive ever known, i still look up to him to this day. Nick coady lived right down my street. Id hung around him long enough to know that he loved his freinds like family. And i didnt really know chris but alot of my freinds were good freinds with him and they loved him. it sucks but in the world we live in these days us kids are forced to grow up fast.Thats all they were doing was living in a world that pressures us to become adults. so if you want to start blaming this on the parents or on nick, why dont you blame it on the society, the WORLD that YOU'VE contributed to that WE are being raised in. this place has taken 3 great kids..... see you on the other side boys Im a junior at southfork. Graver was a good freind of mine, we had been freinds since we were at murray middle, he was and still is one of the best kids ive ever known, i still look up to him to this day. Nick coady lived right down my street. Id hung around him long enough to know that he loved his freinds like family. And i didnt really know chris but alot of my freinds were good freinds with him and they loved him. it sucks but in the world we live in these days us kids are forced to grow up fast.Thats all they were doing was living in a world that pressures us to become adults. so if you want to start blaming this on the parents or on nick, why dont you blame it on the society, the WORLD that YOU’VE contributed to that WE are being raised in. this place has taken 3 great kids….. see you on the other side boys

]]> By: Billy Roberts http://www.tcoasttalk.com/2009/08/05/as-loved-ones-mourn-wreck-victims-police-look-for-answers/comment-page-1/#comment-16757 Billy Roberts Mon, 10 Aug 2009 02:24:29 +0000 http://www.tcoasttalk.com/?p=7056#comment-16757 Im a senior at Southfork and i knew connor personally he played on the football team with me and he was a great kid and im sure he will be lookin down on us this season. This season is dedicated to you Connor! How Bout Them DAWGS! R.I.P. Graver Im a senior at Southfork and i knew connor personally he played on the football team with me and he was a great kid and im sure he will be lookin down on us this season. This season is dedicated to you Connor! How Bout Them DAWGS! R.I.P. Graver

]]> By: RS http://www.tcoasttalk.com/2009/08/05/as-loved-ones-mourn-wreck-victims-police-look-for-answers/comment-page-1/#comment-16301 RS Thu, 06 Aug 2009 20:41:00 +0000 http://www.tcoasttalk.com/?p=7056#comment-16301 Something tells me that if people like "JJ" were going through a tragedy such as this, they would expect sympathy, and would be EXTREMELY hurt and enraged at the selfless comments people on the other side would be making. Not once would you say, "Oh well, stupid kid shouldn't have been drinking." You'd be just like Mrs. Coady, Mr. & Mrs. Graver, and Mr. Briglio, crying and holding onto any piece of your child you might have left. Regardless of how these people passed, Florida lost sons, brothers, best friends, and boyfriends on Tuesday. It's completely unfair and disgusting for people to post links to Nick and Brandie's Myspace profiles. How can you pick these people apart? You don't think they're on the verge of crumbling, if they haven't done so already? Let us grieve. Let us mourn. Let us MISS these wonderful people for what and who they are and were. Get off your high horses, and understand that there are many heavy hearts in Martin County and its surrounding cities. You people are probably so structured because you couldn't HANDLE it if something like this happened in your lives. It has in ours, and we're trying to be strong for each other. We are on a way to a triple funeral tomorrow evening. For Christ's sake, SHUT UP for one day. One day of peace, as we celebrate these lives and let them go be with God. Stop criticizing our every move and word. We are upset, angry, and heartbroken. This is truly a wake up call, and every single one of us will tell you that. We will tell you that we have all been stupid, and made it home when it was a possibility not to. We ADMIT IT. You should too, because I know there's not one angel on this planet. They are called back too soon. In loving memory ~ Nick Coady, Chris Briglio, Connor Graver Forever in our hearts Something tells me that if people like “JJ” were going through a tragedy such as this, they would expect sympathy, and would be EXTREMELY hurt and enraged at the selfless comments people on the other side would be making. Not once would you say, “Oh well, stupid kid shouldn’t have been drinking.” You’d be just like Mrs. Coady, Mr. & Mrs. Graver, and Mr. Briglio, crying and holding onto any piece of your child you might have left. Regardless of how these people passed, Florida lost sons, brothers, best friends, and boyfriends on Tuesday. It’s completely unfair and disgusting for people to post links to Nick and Brandie’s Myspace profiles. How can you pick these people apart? You don’t think they’re on the verge of crumbling, if they haven’t done so already? Let us grieve. Let us mourn. Let us MISS these wonderful people for what and who they are and were. Get off your high horses, and understand that there are many heavy hearts in Martin County and its surrounding cities. You people are probably so structured because you couldn’t HANDLE it if something like this happened in your lives. It has in ours, and we’re trying to be strong for each other. We are on a way to a triple funeral tomorrow evening. For Christ’s sake, SHUT UP for one day. One day of peace, as we celebrate these lives and let them go be with God. Stop criticizing our every move and word. We are upset, angry, and heartbroken. This is truly a wake up call, and every single one of us will tell you that. We will tell you that we have all been stupid, and made it home when it was a possibility not to. We ADMIT IT. You should too, because I know there’s not one angel on this planet. They are called back too soon.

In loving memory ~ Nick Coady, Chris Briglio, Connor Graver
Forever in our hearts

]]> By: LB http://www.tcoasttalk.com/2009/08/05/as-loved-ones-mourn-wreck-victims-police-look-for-answers/comment-page-1/#comment-16296 LB Thu, 06 Aug 2009 20:07:58 +0000 http://www.tcoasttalk.com/?p=7056#comment-16296 This is an awful tragedy whether the kids were in college or not. If they were 16 or 17 and they were out at that hour during the school year then yeah, you could say they were out too late. But the fact is we teach our kids to "grow up", "be a man" and that's what they thought they were doing, acting like grown ups. Truth is nobody is a grown up until they've had many, many years of experience. Unfortunately these kids won't have that benefit. But their friends can learn some serious lessons from this if they pay attention and we help them see them. God rest their souls. This is an awful tragedy whether the kids were in college or not. If they were 16 or 17 and they were out at that hour during the school year then yeah, you could say they were out too late. But the fact is we teach our kids to “grow up”, “be a man” and that’s what they thought they were doing, acting like grown ups. Truth is nobody is a grown up until they’ve had many, many years of experience. Unfortunately these kids won’t have that benefit. But their friends can learn some serious lessons from this if they pay attention and we help them see them.
God rest their souls.

]]> By: Bournsac http://www.tcoasttalk.com/2009/08/05/as-loved-ones-mourn-wreck-victims-police-look-for-answers/comment-page-1/#comment-16287 Bournsac Thu, 06 Aug 2009 19:28:31 +0000 http://www.tcoasttalk.com/?p=7056#comment-16287 Thank you Dana, Gillian. JJ: How terrible your life must be for you to have to come onto here and thrust disgusting comments such as yours at readers (who may also still be mourning)so early after and incident like this. You don't even have all of the facts because police and toxicology reports have not been release confirming ANYTHING! If I were you I would crawl out of that big boy armor you call a computer and retain comments such as that to yourself. And, for some demented reason, you feel the need to let someone know how you feel go talk to your friends and family because I'm sure they would love to see how black your heart really is. Thank you Dana, Gillian. JJ: How terrible your life must be for you to have to come onto here and thrust disgusting comments such as yours at readers (who may also still be mourning)so early after and incident like this. You don’t even have all of the facts because police and toxicology reports have not been release confirming ANYTHING! If I were you I would crawl out of that big boy armor you call a computer and retain comments such as that to yourself. And, for some demented reason, you feel the need to let someone know how you feel go talk to your friends and family because I’m sure they would love to see how black your heart really is.

]]> By: Dena http://www.tcoasttalk.com/2009/08/05/as-loved-ones-mourn-wreck-victims-police-look-for-answers/comment-page-1/#comment-16283 Dena Thu, 06 Aug 2009 19:03:40 +0000 http://www.tcoasttalk.com/?p=7056#comment-16283 Gillian - you couldn't have said it better. My son is devastated by these deaths as he was freinds with them all. Fortunately, he's finishing up classes this week (at COLLEGE for you ignorant jerks who assume so much) and coming back to be with everyone this weekend. Hopefully, he won't see this trash. You are so correct in everything you wrote! As for me, I'm done reading this garbage. I was just trying to get more information on funerals, fund raisers for the families, etc. This was definately NOT the place to come to. Gillian - you couldn’t have said it better. My son is devastated by these deaths as he was freinds with them all. Fortunately, he’s finishing up classes this week (at COLLEGE for you ignorant jerks who assume so much) and coming back to be with everyone this weekend. Hopefully, he won’t see this trash. You are so correct in everything you wrote! As for me, I’m done reading this garbage. I was just trying to get more information on funerals, fund raisers for the families, etc. This was definately NOT the place to come to.

]]> By: Gillian http://www.tcoasttalk.com/2009/08/05/as-loved-ones-mourn-wreck-victims-police-look-for-answers/comment-page-1/#comment-16281 Gillian Thu, 06 Aug 2009 18:42:43 +0000 http://www.tcoasttalk.com/?p=7056#comment-16281 I pray to GOD that you ignorant sons of bitches commenting on this pointing fingers at the driver and the families never feel the pain we all are experiencing right now. You may think you have your child locked away at night but those are probably the kids sneeking out behind your back. This is one of my closest friends, home from COLLEGE. A child only in the fact that he still had a long life ahead of him. All we ask is that you be respectful and allow us to mourn in peace, not cause us more hurt and anger reading these stabs from complete strangers. I am furious anyone would even think to call Nick a murderer. He was genuinely a good person, I can't say that much for you. It's a tragedy. Leave it at that. I pray to GOD that you ignorant sons of bitches commenting on this pointing fingers at the driver and the families never feel the pain we all are experiencing right now. You may think you have your child locked away at night but those are probably the kids sneeking out behind your back. This is one of my closest friends, home from COLLEGE. A child only in the fact that he still had a long life ahead of him. All we ask is that you be respectful and allow us to mourn in peace, not cause us more hurt and anger reading these stabs from complete strangers. I am furious anyone would even think to call Nick a murderer. He was genuinely a good person, I can’t say that much for you. It’s a tragedy. Leave it at that.

]]> By: Dena http://www.tcoasttalk.com/2009/08/05/as-loved-ones-mourn-wreck-victims-police-look-for-answers/comment-page-1/#comment-16269 Dena Thu, 06 Aug 2009 16:40:18 +0000 http://www.tcoasttalk.com/?p=7056#comment-16269 well "jj", that has to be the most ignorant statement I've read yet. What an idiot and what a selfish empty life you must live in. well “jj”, that has to be the most ignorant statement I’ve read yet. What an idiot and what a selfish empty life you must live in.

]]> By: jj http://www.tcoasttalk.com/2009/08/05/as-loved-ones-mourn-wreck-victims-police-look-for-answers/comment-page-1/#comment-16265 jj Thu, 06 Aug 2009 16:29:21 +0000 http://www.tcoasttalk.com/?p=7056#comment-16265 The driver (MURDERER) Coady had a criminal past and committed a crimal act. Truth & Facts may hurt, yet still be true. The driver (MURDERER) Coady had a criminal past and committed a crimal act. Truth & Facts may hurt, yet still be true.

]]> By: Dena http://www.tcoasttalk.com/2009/08/05/as-loved-ones-mourn-wreck-victims-police-look-for-answers/comment-page-1/#comment-16263 Dena Thu, 06 Aug 2009 16:21:23 +0000 http://www.tcoasttalk.com/?p=7056#comment-16263 Oh, how nice it but be to be such the perfect parent Mr. "popcop"; get over yourself! You don't think these parents aren't going through enough without your totally misinformed statements. You don't know these people and YOU don't know what happened. You are making ASSUMPTIONS. You people on this site are pathetic and I hope and pray the familes of these kids don't read this trash. Oh, how nice it but be to be such the perfect parent Mr. “popcop”; get over yourself! You don’t think these parents aren’t going through enough without your totally misinformed statements. You don’t know these people and YOU don’t know what happened. You are making ASSUMPTIONS. You people on this site are pathetic and I hope and pray the familes of these kids don’t read this trash.

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