Three young men dead after SUV slams into front-end loader doing road construction near Hobe Sound
August 4th, 2009 by Post StaffIf there was fun to be had, Nick Coady, Chris Briglio and Connor Graver were likely involved.
They were the ones to call if you wanted to know where the party was or if you were looking for something to do, even on an otherwise boring summer night in Martin County. Once they got everyone to play musical chairs. Often, they were together.
Christopher Briglio
Connor Graver
Nicholas Coady
“Those guys, you couldn’t help but have fun around them. They always lived life to the fullest,” said James Young, 18, a classmate at South Fork High School in Stuart.
So there was laughter mixed in with the tears Tuesday as their former classmates and friends at South Fork gathered near the spot along Cove Road, south of Stuart, where the three lost their lives in what authorities are calling an alcohol-related crash.
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Nick, 18, of Stuart, Chris, 18, of Tequesta, and Connor, 16, of Hobe Sound, died at about 2 a.m. Tuesday after the SUV they were in slammed head-on into a John Deere front-end loader at a construction site at Cove Road and U.S. 1, said Lt. Chris Cribbs of the Florida Highway Patrol.
Chris and Connor, who friends say were “inseparable,” died at the scene. Neither were wearing seat belts, according to the police report. Nick, the driver, died later at St. Mary’s Medical Center in West Palm Beach. He was wearing a seat belt.
Investigators also suspect Nick was speeding. The speed limit on Cove Road is 35 mph.
The driver of the John Deere, Pedro Perez-Espinosa, 25, of Okeechobee wasn’t hurt.
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Nicholas Coady
Christopher Briglio
Connor Graver
Construction crews were widening the road and installing drainage or sewage pipe at that intersection when the SUV, traveling eastbound, approached, Cribbs said. The loader had just dumped some dirt by the roadside and was backing off the road when the SUV struck. It hit the loader’s bucket, flipping the SUV, according to the police report. The crash destroyed the SUV.
There wasn’t much light in the area, he said, but crews said the front-end loader itself was well lit.
The crash closed Cove Road for hours as emergency workers cleared the wreckage.
A woman who answered the door at Nick’s house Tuesday said he was an “angel,” but said the family didn’t want to discuss the crash.
Chris’ grandmother, Helen Nekola, said the Briglios’ family members were gathering in Tequesta to mourn.
“He was a wonderful boy,” Nekola said by phone from Bethpage, N.Y. “We’re just trying to get around this.”
Classmates, who gathered at the site after the wreckage had been cleared, built a makeshift memorial for the trio. They left flowers, a football, a polo shirt and letters. They scrawled messages across a large poster as they might have a yearbook, covering it with signatures by mid-afternoon. And they talked about their friends.
Nick, who graduated in June, was loud and funny. Chris, often called “Briggs,” was friendly and thoughtful, the kind of guy who wasn’t afraid to tell people just how much he loved his mom. He attended South Fork his junior year, but moved to the district’s adult education program his senior year, school officials said. He had yet to graduate.
Connor, who would have been a senior in the fall, was a free spirit, the football player who would wrap his friends in his arms and pick them up off the ground when he hugged them.
“He was so much fun,” Melanie Hamilton, 18, said.
Adam Jolly, 19, said he played football with Connor. Last year, he loaned Connor his cleats and Connor made his first sack wearing them.
“He made the shoes look good,” he said.
Christian Janski, 18, had known Nick since the first grade. She described him as the “life of the party” and said he had already started taking classes at the University of North Florida in Jacksonville.
“He was the loudest person you would ever meet in your life,” she said.
South Fork Principal Patricia Schmoyer described the young men as having “great attitudes.” She, like so many who knew the trio, said they enjoyed life.
“It’s a great loss to the community,” she said.
Staff Writers Sonja Isger and Michael LaForgia contributed to this story.
Tags: alcohol, Christopher Briglio, Connor Graver, Cove Road, crash, deer, dies, driver, federal, Florida, hospital, investigation, Jeep Grand Cherokee, name, Nicholas Coady, roads, South Fork High School, speeding
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August 4th, 2009 at 7:15 am
At 2:24 in the AM I would imagine alcohol played some role in this. At least the innocent road worker wasn’t killed. Condolences to the families.
August 4th, 2009 at 7:23 am
So just because someone is driving at 2:24 in the morning means their drunk? I work late all the time and so does alot of my family. Know your facts first before opening your mouth.
August 4th, 2009 at 7:31 am
“The wreck happened about 2:14 a.m.” “In the area where the crash occurred there’s not much light,” Cribbs said. Though, the crews did report that the front-end loader itself was well lit.” “The SUV, traveling reportedly at a high rate of speed, smashed into it. FHP confirms speed was a factor.
August 4th, 2009 at 8:20 am
For all three to die speed was a big factor.
August 4th, 2009 at 8:33 am
The FHP said alcohol is suspected by obvious evidence at the scene. Couple that with high speed & you have 3 dead people. WPTV has pics up of the SUV. It’s pretty obvious the driver was hauling when he slammed into that loader.
August 4th, 2009 at 8:54 am
Sad. Another fatal accident that didn’t have to happen. Natural reaction in today’s world is to suspect that alcohol played a role. Sounds like FHP has some evidence to support that. I drank and drove a lot when I was younger. Glad I was LUCKY enough to never have an accident or a DUI. It’s a shame that some people don’t have that same luck…as drinking and driving can and does kill…often innocent and naive lives. Do yourself and your family the biggest favor possible…DON’T drink and drive!
August 4th, 2009 at 9:05 am
Hey JS, I waiting for you to apologize. Perhaps you have taken your own adivse and “shut your mouth”?
August 4th, 2009 at 9:35 am
What a shame. Alcohol makes people think they are ten feet tall and bullet proof. Probably if everyone was honest we would be amazed at those of us who have driven with alcohol in our systems. All of us do things when we are younger that we would not do as we mature and our judgement becomes more sound. These young men made poor judgements and have paid the ultimate price. It is wrong of those who are on here so quick to judge that because the accident happened at 2 A.M. that they were drunk. People work all kinds of shifts and hours not just 9-5. Because someone is on the road in the wee hours is not a sign that they were drinking. Now maybe from other evidence at the scene it has been determined that they were drinking. Even if they were who are we to judge them for their mistake? There is a judge for them to answer to and that same judge judges all of us when we judge our neighbor. God Bless the families of the men, they are left with the pain and heartache that only time will soften. Walk a mile in someone else’s shoes before you criticise and accuse this could be a family member of yours that made a bad judgement how would you feel then???
August 4th, 2009 at 9:52 am
The SUV did it again. When will the reporters start attributing crashes to the driver and not the evil SUVs?
August 4th, 2009 at 9:54 am
those are 3 of my bestfriends. id rather have had the worker die then them.. call me selfish.. but thats the way the world works. rest in peace you 3. i love you to death, all of Hobesound loves you to death, you’ll never be forgotten.
August 4th, 2009 at 10:04 am
Alex, beautifully said; “You would rather see one innocent road worker dead”. Why weren’t you out drinking with them last night?
August 4th, 2009 at 10:11 am
What a sad day, three people are dead because one of them, the driver of the SUV, dedided to be selfish and chose to take other’s lives into his own hands. The construction worker was doing his job trying to make a living, he was dam lucky they did not kill him too.
To have rather had the worker die is such a pathetic, inhumane and ignorant statement. And no,it is not how the world works.
August 4th, 2009 at 10:42 am
I agree with you Jarksi, just like I always have man. All of these reporters have nothing better to do than talk about alcohol. And on TCPalm some guy is pissed bc traffic was diverted through his neighborhood. I bet the parents of all three of these boys are going to enjoy going on to see comments about how it is their sons fault and all the pointing fingers being done. What good does pointing fingers do when all three of them are gone. It does no good, whatever the circumstances are get past that and realize that a lot of people lost 3 good boys today. RIP Conner, Nick and Chris!
August 4th, 2009 at 10:44 am
I´d rather have had ur parents or ur brothers Alex.
The workers were working for u, to making things better for u.Im sorry if the 3 was ur best friends but like u said.”Thats the way the world works”
August 4th, 2009 at 11:16 am
Hinds… see the 9:52 am update? It’s not reporters its the FHP saying it.
http://www.sun-sentinel.com/news/local/breakingnews/sfl-accident-stuart-bn080409,0,7471381.story
STUART - The Florida Highway Patrol is saying alcohol played a part in the triple fatality at Cove Road and Federal Highway early Tuesday morning
“We do believe alcohol played a part in the crash. There’s no doubt that it did,” said FHP Lt. Chris Cribbs at the scene, just east of the Montego Cove community.
Cribbs said speed likely was a factor in the crash. The speed limit on Cove Road is 35 mph.
I hate to go on the road after midnight! The % of drunks multiplies every hour.
August 4th, 2009 at 11:18 am
keep your outsider comments to your self i dont need your stupid remarks, non of us do.. ya i kno its selfish to say that but anyone on this side of the line would possibly think or feel the same way, i honeslty dont wish death on anyone but 1 is a better number then 3… so shut your mouth. Ya’ll dont know these people or there situations and what was goin on that night. we all know that when were intoxicated we get emotional and things affect different parts of our brains. and what you mean youd rather have had my parents or my brothers.. those were like my brothers.. so mayb you did take em.. shut your mouth and open your eyes and take a look into other peoples lives. thats all i gotta say to you people that know nothing about those 3 amazing kids. And i wasnt out drinkin with em because i had to move to georgia to further my life.. a week ago.. Connor helped me move damn it. so i hope you find some sort of satisfaction talkin your shit, doesnt change anything.
August 4th, 2009 at 11:20 am
jarsk, i know you don’t wish an innocent man would have died.. I feel horrible for your three friends, I didn’t know them… but, i wish no one would have died.. that’s not something to wish on someone.
and, on the people that have nothing better to do than talk about how the kids were selfish for driving and stuff. do you think the other kids didn’t jump right in the car? it’s not just one persons fault. and maybe the construction should have been better lit. none of us were there, we don’t know exactly what happened.
August 4th, 2009 at 11:20 am
and you will find that everyone that knows these kids truthfully and is from where were from will agree with me. so you ‘reporters’ that got nothin but negative things to say.. go be judgmental somewhere else. We’re a family and we aren’t gunna settle for your petty comments on this tragedy.
August 4th, 2009 at 11:24 am
Thank you trent, the comment i posted about yours was correcting my statement. were all emotional bout this so i said somthin inappropriate but it doesnt give room for these strangers to start talkin a bunch of trash.
August 4th, 2009 at 11:25 am
And Nick wasn’t being selfish.. we all got a huge amount of love for eachother, we always look out for eachother.. why in the world would this be intentional? would you kill one of your closest friends on purpose? or two.. get it right.
August 4th, 2009 at 11:37 am
Alex, those of us who know you, know that you don’t and would never wish death on anyone. For the rest of the people here who have nothing to say except, “Shouldn’t have been drinking”, although your points are very valid, I guarantee you cannot say you have been a good-decision making saint for your entire life. It takes making bad decisions to be able to make the good ones in the future. It sometimes takes being a reckless kid to be a smart, or at least functionable, adult. Not one person here can say they have not made a “stupid decision” or “mistake”. As Jesus himself said, “Let the one without sin cast the first stone”. There have been countless times where we have all thought we are invincible, or sober enough, to drive. Thank God we have made it home every time. These boys did not make it home physically, but I have every reason to believe they truly are at home where they were called to. Like Alex said, anyone who had gotten the chance to know these men will stand up for them and their decisions time and time again, because we know damn well they’d be doing the same for us. Rest in peace Connor, Chris and Nick. We loved you then, now and forever. It’s not goodbye, it’s see you later.
August 4th, 2009 at 11:46 am
Statements should not be made until the facts are accurate.I was hit from behind by a driver who was going 70 MPH on I-95 near Jupiter in 04.My car did a pit maneuver.It was horrifying.As I was being transported to Jupiter Hospital I overheard the paramedics talking about how the accident happened-they were saying our battery flew out of the hood and, that is what caused the accident.That was so far from the truth!!It hurts when people make up stories.So I think we need to wait on the investigative reports from the authorities.
August 4th, 2009 at 11:51 am
I am sorry for your loss, Alex. It is very hard to lose friends so close to you. Stay strong.
For everybody else talking shit: Keep it to yourself, if you were going through the same thing, you wouldn’t want people saying cruel things about your loved ones. No matter what you “think” you would do in a situation, you dont know unless it happens to you. Have a little sympathy for what has happened, and for the friends and families affected. No one knows what really happened last night, and it really doesnt matter, because three young boys are gone, so there is no point in arguing about it. It’s pathetic to be so judgmental of someone who is dealing with the loss of three close friends. Mind your own business and shut your mouth.
August 4th, 2009 at 12:11 pm
Thank you Raechel, Dena, West palm native, Trent, Matt anyone who reads this and understands.. RIP
August 4th, 2009 at 12:27 pm
I agree, some sympathy for the families of the driver and passengers would be appreciated I’m sure. Even if alcohol was involved, that’s a harsh lesson to learn. One they won’t get a second chance at, either.
August 4th, 2009 at 12:43 pm
My condolences go out to all who were involved and their loved ones. It’s a tragedy when innocent lives are lost. Too many accidents occur due to drinking and driving but that has become societies standard in the US. Drink as much as you want in the clubs/bars and still expect to get home safely. Some other course of action needs to be taken: cautionary tale.
Rest in peace…God Bless.
August 4th, 2009 at 12:48 pm
A horrible accident occured last night that could have more than likely been prevented. Alcohol, speed, bad lighting and contruction all could played a part in the tragic ending of three lives. Whether or not bad decisions were made does not matter, three lives were lost, tragically. Instead of sitting behind a computer screen and pointing the finger at everyone else, hug our youth and let them know the dangers of drunk driving. I’m sure a majority of us have lost someone to drunk driving, and yet, few of us can say that we haven’t gotten behind the wheel after one drink. Even one drink impairs your ability. To the friends of those that passed, I’m sorry for your loss, but please learn from this and remember this tragedy before you put your keys into the ignition after drinking.
August 4th, 2009 at 12:56 pm
NO ONE should say anything about who was right and who was wrong. Regardless if they had been drinking, this is a rough time for anyone. Thank god the worker is alright, but it is very sad that the 3 boys had to pass. Accidents happen and its unfortunate that this one was so tragic. RIP boys, youll be in our hearts forever. MEMORIAL SERVICE TONIGHT AT HOBE SOUND BEACH 6PM. PLEASE COME OUT TO SUPPORT OUR LOVED ONES.
August 4th, 2009 at 12:59 pm
These kids were all part of our Hobe Sound community. I’ve known these kids for a long time and they were all good kids and my sons and our community will never be the same having lost them. Alex, you hang in there and you call me if you need to. (Ross and Ryan’s mom) And for those of you that have nothing better to do than post trash, get a life, there are many people suffering over this.
August 4th, 2009 at 1:06 pm
When someone gets behind the wheel after drinking, its not an accident, its a crash. Unfortunately the other recent crashes in the area killing young kids didn’t rub off on this driver. I’m sure many of you will still get behind the wheel after drinking or hop in with your intoxicated driver without giving it a second thought.
August 4th, 2009 at 1:16 pm
So sorry for the loss of your friends Alex. I can almost feel your pain. May they rest in Peace and the angels look down and keep you safe.
August 4th, 2009 at 1:28 pm
i complete agree with you alex, they were an important part to our lives. things won’t be the same around here anymore. chris, connor and got close this summer too, and i agree that everyone that is posting trash, get a life
August 4th, 2009 at 1:29 pm
completey*
chris connor and i*
August 4th, 2009 at 1:37 pm
Some of you people are very sick! Bless the 3 boys and may they rest in peace! Please THINK before you write anything. You could be hurting someone, what if it were you, would you want anyone to comment the way your have?? If you don’t have someting nice or positve to say, then PLEASE keep to yourself. I am so sorry for all invovled, please find comfirt somewhere! Christine
August 4th, 2009 at 1:40 pm
I new graver and worked with his dad and some of you just need to respect before judging. This were 3 young kids who had a lot to live.So please have some respect.
August 4th, 2009 at 1:41 pm
what is sad is that the driver’s family will be getting a couple of lawsuits from the other 2 or 3 families and loose everything.
August 4th, 2009 at 1:41 pm
Are you kidding me? I wish the driver of the front end loader was killed and not the boys? Obviously youth speaking. Talk about insensitive. What babble would she say if the story was different and her friends were killed by a drunk driver. Sorry for everyones loss but it is tougher to pitty when someone makes the decision to drive drunk. Were they of legal age? No. 2 of my family were killed in this manner. I know from what I speak.
August 4th, 2009 at 1:54 pm
Thanks momma Mcglyn ill see you in a few days, same to the rest of the community.. and hopefully they’ll all learn from Dantes, Darius’ and my own mistakes along wit Nick chris’ n connors mistakes.
August 4th, 2009 at 1:57 pm
This is just a tragedy and my heart goes out to the family and friends of these young boys. It really is a shame that people can be so judgmental and post such negativity. We all are only human and everyone makes bad decisions at times. It is part of life. I pray every night when my 16 year old is out that he makes it home safely. These families need the support of friends, family and the community, not statements that are so hurtful.
August 4th, 2009 at 2:01 pm
This is a senseless tragedy that could have been avoided. Drivers, all drivers, when you have passengers they are your responsibility, be accountable for you actions, passengers, do not distract the driver, do not goof around, do not egg the driver on to go fast, do not drink and get reckless in a vehicle.
August 4th, 2009 at 2:07 pm
GOD BLESS THE FAMILIES… OF THESE POOR, UNWATCHED CHILDREN. MAYBE THEIR PARENTS WILL JOIN THE REST OF PARNETS WHOSE LOSE A CHILD TO DRUNK DRIVING, AND TRY TO HELP FURTHER EDUCATE THESE KIDS… AOMETHING HAS TO BE DONE!
August 4th, 2009 at 2:16 pm
I lost my son over thirty years ago in an accident that involved alcohol. I have never forgiven the individual that took my sons life and I never will. He robbed our family just as if he had pointed a gun at his head and shot him. Rather than everyone attempting to place blame on someone or something, we should all be trying our hardest to educate our children about the dangers of driving while under the influence, be it alcohol or drugs. May these three young souls rest in peace, and may their friends come away from this horrible tragedy with a new understanding of life and the consequences of making bad decisions.
August 4th, 2009 at 2:17 pm
I think that if you dont want anyone to comment on what your are saying then you should keep it to yourself. The fact on the matter is 3 lives were lost, and no one really knows what happened, but the people who were in the car and now they are gone. I would’nt wish death on anyone, but I would rather the innocent person be the survivor, then the one that caused the accident. I pray that this teaches everyone a lesson whether its pay attention when your are driving, dont drive drunk, or just plain obeying the speed limit, a lesson can be learned from this tragedy. My heart goes out to everyone that has been affected by this tragedy.
August 4th, 2009 at 2:18 pm
SORRY TO HEAR THAT POPS, BUT I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU!
August 4th, 2009 at 2:35 pm
Too bad Alex Jarski wasn’t able to be partying with his friends that evening. Maybe the immense dimensions of his intelligence would have saved them from the brutal mistakes they made.
Mr. Jarski, don’t condemn people for callousness and then wish death on an innocent person in place of three people who caused their own deaths. You’re inviting criticism and invective sarcasm. This accident is what Darwin had in mind when he developed his theory of “Natural Selection”. The more intelligent component of a species tends to survive, and thus strengthening the species. Fortunately, most make it through the craziness of our teen years unscathed and live to propogate.
August 4th, 2009 at 2:42 pm
I would like to extend my deepest condolences to the families and friends. For a parent, losing your child is the horror of horrors.
August 4th, 2009 at 2:45 pm
Hey JS.. Try readingf the story completely before opening your mouth… This is a quote from the story itself. “The wreck happened about 2:14 a.m. at Cove Road and Federal Highway in Martin County, Florida Highway Patrol Lt. Chris Cribbs said. Investigators believe alcohol played a role in the crash.” DUMBA**!!!!!
August 4th, 2009 at 2:46 pm
you know people drink and drive. it’s reality, everyone does it, it’s the matter of getting caught. and people under 21 drink all the time, probably EVEN your kids, you shouldn’t be judging these boys by the one mistake that caused them their life. yes, they made a bad decision of driving fast and drinking. but DAMN IT 3 YOUNG boys died………so think about their family and friends before saying negative things. RIP nick……………..
August 4th, 2009 at 2:47 pm
So very very sad. Not matter what the circumstances…my heartfelt condolences to all the family and friends of these young boys. May you find peace.
August 4th, 2009 at 2:51 pm
It’s disturbing to see some of the posts from these kids’ peers. Is it the computer-game culture that would wish death upon an innocent person? During my teen years I lost three friends in three different crashes. Of course I was sad but I realized all three had made dumb mistakes and I learned from it. No excuses or wishes of death against others.
August 4th, 2009 at 2:57 pm
3 young men in the prime of their youth…dead! Please no more of this. It sickens me. The Monopolistic Alcohol Industry makes billions distributing their brew, and hopes to increase their bottom line by double digits the next few years. The ‘ultra right wing’ control this industry in almost all 50 states, like the Cindy McCain family. Just Google: John McCain liquor family, and up pops the “Hensley” family fortune controlled by Cindy McCains’ family. Net worth $300,000,000 from distributing Bud Beer. Beer. Just Beer. Think about it. Beer. Simple as that. Don’t drink at all. The money generated by the liquor industry just fuels Right Wing Propaganda. I’m not even going to talk about “BIG Pharma” and all the addicts. Not enough time.
Peace. BTW…grow your own!
August 4th, 2009 at 2:58 pm
Do we know if the John Deere driver is a legal citizen and is an experience driver of the equipment.So many accidents happen when illegal aliens are behind the wheel.
August 4th, 2009 at 3:01 pm
alex Jarski Says:
August 4th, 2009 at 9:54 am
those are 3 of my bestfriends. id rather have had the worker die then them.. call me selfish.. but thats the way the world works. rest in peace you 3. i love you to death, all of Hobesound loves you to death, you’ll never be forgotten.
THE ABOVE COMMENT NEEDS to be REMOVED it is OFFENSIVE, how dare that immature idiot state the construction worker should have died. SHAME on ALEX JARSKI, he needs to apologize to the construction worker and his family AND the entire community for hio thoughtless, TOXIC comment. SHAME ON ALEX
August 4th, 2009 at 3:10 pm
This is a hard lesson learned for everyone involved. They need to take the wreckage of the SUV and drag it to the school so all other teens can take warning. If you drink and drive - this is what happens.
As for them being out at 2:14 am, do you really think all of them were at work or school at that time? Of course they were drinking, that’s a given no matter what. Don’t give me this crap about how you work the late night shift and are out at 3am. They are teenagers, there’s no way that they were being responsible at that time of night. When kids are up that late, 90% of the time they are up to no good.
August 4th, 2009 at 3:14 pm
Dorothy, settle down. Removing the post would hide the dumbasses that infect our community. I want to see what these brainless cretins are thinking and saying.
I was very saddened when I read about their reckless deaths, but if Alex is indeed a “bestfriend” of the three, then maybe it isn’t such a great loss.
August 4th, 2009 at 3:20 pm
I feel sorry for all the families involved. I however do think fingers need to be pointed if they were drinking. I am forwarding this story to all young people I know. This terrible incident should be used as an example to other children how important it is not to drink and drive. I can’t imagine how the families feel and I truly believe they don’t deserve to hurt so much. Even the best parent can lecture not to drink and drive but sometimes it happens anyway.
To Alex: How old and immature are you? you’d rather the front end loader operator die instead. better one than 3? what if he has 3 kids and a wife at home and he was working to support them…only one life changed forever right…dumba$$ Obviously you are upset but that is no reason to act stupid. what if they ran into your mother and father would you still rather them be the ones that lived…grow up (luckily no one else was killed)
August 4th, 2009 at 3:20 pm
I am 39 and have lost many good friends to alcohol and drugs. It is scary having a child and knowing when he is older, he will make reckless decisions. I did and thank God I am here today:) This story is about these 3 kids. God bless them, the families and friends. May you all find peace in Christ.
August 4th, 2009 at 3:21 pm
This is just another tragedy one of many for us this morning. Unfortanetly most trauma’s are alcohol or drug related. Maybe the case , maybe not. Nobody knows at this point and should stop accusing the kids. The worker may not have had appropriate light. That is all for the investigators to decide. Right now there are 3 families mourning. Let’s think about them right now and later about lessons to be learned. We all at some point make wrong decisions. They are called accidents for a reason. Being a parent , one of the hardest parts of my job is telling a mom or dad that their child is dead, so to the families I can speak on behalf of our team and say we are all sorry for your losses. May GOD be with all of you at this time.
August 4th, 2009 at 3:41 pm
This is a huge tragedy that keeps repeating itself time and time again. I am a mother of 3 and a daughter of a fireman who saw this all the time. I can honestly say that I have never got behind the wheel after drinking and neither have my kids. I personally go pick them up whenever they want. Parents need to teach about responsible choices. My teenages make a choice before they leave the house as to weather they will drink or not. If they decide they want to I drop them off and pick them up. So please don’t sit here and say everyone does it. There are responsible adults and children in this world that make good choices.
August 4th, 2009 at 3:41 pm
I can not believe some of the comments I’m reading on here. These are kids we are talking about!! Where is your compassion?? We all have done stupid things and were lucky enough to walk away from them. The three kids were sadly not so lucky! My heart goes to their families. No parent should ever have to lose a child. Some of you should really proof read your comments before posting because some of them have me nauseated. All people regardless of age make mistakes….they did NOT deserve to die for their mistake!
August 4th, 2009 at 3:45 pm
You are right they didn’t have to die, they could have called someone instead of getting behind the wheel. Everyone does make mistakes and usually there are concequences, unfortunetly the concequences were huge.
August 4th, 2009 at 4:05 pm
I would have said nothing if the comments weren’t so wrong by these “friends”. And using alcohol as an excuse for making bad decisions because of the effects on the brain?
You continue to impress (and depress) us all.
So why would you be out driving at 2am, underage drinking and speeding? Cause I was drunk?
August 4th, 2009 at 4:08 pm
did you people not happen to read my comment two post after retracting my negative statement and saying that it was an emotional comment.. im not a dumbass from the community. Im a good friend of the 3 young men and their families and the majority of people that reside in Hobe sound and know us all.. and rachels comment backing my poor choice of words also.. i said i dont wish death on anyone.. so read everything please instead of bein quick to get at people hurtin from this situation.. you arent any better or smarter then any of us. recognize. Regardless, theyll be loved and missed, and it is a blessing that there wasn’t a fourth or fifth death to this accident.
August 4th, 2009 at 4:11 pm
Now I know the majority of you people that are posting on this article have drank and drove one time or another. Do you think they intentionally got in that accident? I don’t think so. I only knew two of them but they were both amazing people, so anybody who has something bad to say about them, please keep the comments to yourselves. This is a tough enough situation already, and It’s supposed to bring people closer and teach you a lesson, not cause an argument about whose fault it was or whats wrong and right. So all of you who have something negative to say about these boys, think before you speak. RIP Nick, Chris, and Connor.
August 4th, 2009 at 4:16 pm
i only knew Connor and he was a cool kid. what really hurts is Coach Lavelle told us about Jensen’s football captain dying the same way and how we better not get in a car w/ anyone who’s drunk after prom. He looked Connor in the eyes and told him to be careful. He obeyed for prom, but he didnt obey for the summer. i wish he would’ve.
August 4th, 2009 at 4:21 pm
This is a classic scenario where a tragedy occurred and now it will be a FEEDING FRENZY for attorneys to find fault on who, what, where and when. Then sue everyone from the car manufacturer, construction company, front end loader operator, Town of Stuart, the driver, establishment selling the alcohol… Everyone will lose except for the lawyers. Then when it’s all said and done the people living in Stuart will have to fork over more tax payer’s money to put up a traffic light so this will never happen again or lots of stop signs (Home Depot parking lot), guard rails and other traffic devices. The bottom line is when will all this stop!
August 4th, 2009 at 4:24 pm
Kids can not make good choices for themselves. So the state should make choices for them and not allow them behind the wheel of a car until they are 21. Alot of things need to change in this world and that is one of them. Sorry to say it people, not everyone drinks and drives. I was always smarter than that, so why cant other people be?
August 4th, 2009 at 4:27 pm
what the hell were those kids doing out at 2 a.m.?
August 4th, 2009 at 4:29 pm
I’m reading all of this everybody pointing fingers i lost my brother last year to a drunk driver and all i can say my prayers go out to the family until you are in someones shoes you dont no what to say so to all of you please hold your comments pray for the families
August 4th, 2009 at 4:32 pm
So sad that a tradegy has to happen to three young people in the prime of their life for all of us to realize what drinking and driving can do. Not only did those three boys lose their life but the parents that have to live with this the rest of their lives. Every kid that knows these boys and went to school with them should go to their funerals and PRAY for themselves and the parents of all young people. You kids don’t know the anxiety and emotional worry we have as parents every time you walk out of the house.
August 4th, 2009 at 4:37 pm
I would like to thank all the people who are making the rude comments about the alcohol, the traffic, ect. You have truly shown the cruelty in the world these days. These kids were brighter than you can even know and yes, teen do make bad choices once in their lives, and this one just happened to end bad. To all the parents who are making these comments, i would like for you to think back to a night when your kid came home intoxicated. Imagine if they hadn’t made it home that night, would you still be saying “oh well, shouldn’t have been drinking.” No, you would have a very different outlook on this entire situation. No matter what the cause was though, these boys mean so much to all of this area, and their presences will be missed so much. There are no other words to describe them but irreplaceable, they were true kid with big hearts for everyone and everything. It’s a shame to have all your people condemning them.
August 4th, 2009 at 4:39 pm
NO MORE LAWS!!!!!!! NO MORE LAWS!!!!!! THAT’S WHY WE HAVE THIS TYPE OF PROBLEM…. PEOPLE PUSH THIS INTO A “WE NEED MORE LAWS TO STOP THIS”… WHAT ABOUT THE PARENTS? WHAT ABOUT TEACHING KIDS? WHAT ABOUT JUST BING RESPONSIBLE FOR YOURSELF!!! NO MORE LAWS… THAT’S WHY WE HAVE OBAMA TO GIVE US MORE LAWS AND FREEBIES.. STOP THE MADNESS.. THAT’S WHY THIS IS IN CAPS… ALL CAPS..
August 4th, 2009 at 4:42 pm
I am not makig fun or condemning these boys. The facts are it’s a damn shame this had to happen. I am pointing out what happens after the fact. People want the GOVERNMENT to help them out and make it right.
August 4th, 2009 at 5:09 pm
We are well within our rights to criticize the decisions made by these kids on the night of their deaths. They made stupid decisions. Just because they died, that’s no reason why we can’t discuss the errors in judgment they made, which killed them, and endangered the lives of everyone else around them.
You friends of them, you can defend them all you want, but we see what you are really doing: you’re running from the truth. The truth is, three kids their age not only broke the law by drinking (most likely, anyway), they also acted stupidly by getting into a vehicle under the influence of alcohol. Yes, I know that kids will drink: I drank in my senior year, too–but all of my friends and I took drinking and driving very seriously. We didn’t want to get killed, or kill anyone, or even just get into trouble with the law. So when we drank, we stayed HOME at someone’s house. Is that so hard to figure out to do?
So you friends of these kids are the ones who should keep your comments to yourselves when you say that it would be preferable to have them alive and the road worker dead. The road worker was INNOCENT of the reckless and stupid decisions that your friends made. How DARE you suggest that HE should have died? You can call that “not wishing death on anyone” but that’s exactly the disgusting and juvenile thing you’re doing. Accept the fact that your friends cost themselves their own lives, and though no one really deserved to die, if anyone had to, it was the people who put a loaded gun (SUV) to the heads (other cars) of the people on the roads. How would you feel if your friends had taken the innocent lives of, say, a family traveling to a Key West vacation? They opened the door to such an event, and it was dumb luck that they didn’t end up doing that.
August 4th, 2009 at 5:19 pm
Hey what happened to the LOADER, was it able to keep working?
August 4th, 2009 at 5:34 pm
Alex, you have apologized enough. I too was shocked by what you wrote, but then I read your apology. I understand how upset you are and I know that what you wrote was based on absolute anguish and that you didn’t mean it. Try not to be angry Alex…God only gives us what we can handle.
What is most important is that we pray for all the friends and family to have strength. As the father of a beautiful 4-yr-old girl I can empathize with the parents.
Taking shots at Alex is not helpful.
I hope in the future somebody who reads this story will make a different decision and save lives.
Finally to Susan, comment 53 I believe. To try and make this about illegal aliens is despicable. Frankly I am shocked to see Bill O’Reilly posting here under the name “susan.”
August 4th, 2009 at 5:35 pm
PJay:
You are out of line and inconsiderate of others grief. It is human nature to react to traumatic situation with a variety of emotions and derogatory comments are not justified when it comes to someone’s grief, especially those that are young. Coping mechanism are not always there when you need them, and we have all reacted or said things as a result of a traumatic event, that later we might have not even thought about.
So you know what, chill out, and back off. . . dont be so hard on those that are having a very difficult time.
August 4th, 2009 at 6:30 pm
You guys are complete jerks. NO ONE is perfect, and no one deserves this. and all you adults, imagine if it was one of your children. Your children are not perfect either. this could happen to anyone, whether they were drinking, whether its 2 in the morning or 4 in the afternoon. accidents happen. When people do road work. there should be more lights. and if they didnt have immigrants working for them this may not have happened. so think before you open your mouth. No one deserves death, no matter what they do! Bless you guys. and God please help their families and friends get through this.
RIP Connor, Chris, and Nick
we will all miss you
August 4th, 2009 at 6:49 pm
These kids were amazing. They will be missed so so so much.
August 4th, 2009 at 6:52 pm
AND if you would have known these guys you would not be saying some of the stuff you are. They were some of the nicest people in the entire world.
August 4th, 2009 at 7:07 pm
I just got back from the beach memorial and it was probably the saddest time of my life. Chris’ brother spoke for a moment and i saw Connors mom and dad. I am so glad that what seemed to be like 300 kids and even 2 news crews. RIP boys ima miss you like crazy ..
August 4th, 2009 at 7:32 pm
It’s sad this happened and my heart goes out to the families. They made a poor choice and paid dearly for it. Hopefully this will wake up other people (young and old) in the area and keep them from thinking it won’t happen to them. It’s only a matter of time when you drive intoxicated (buzzed or full out drunk) before you get a DUI, wreck and possibly kill yourself, friends, and possibly an innocent driver.
August 4th, 2009 at 7:47 pm
To their friends, about the parent’s posts……I can so sadly list the many names, please forgive those I miss…..from Kyle in the river, to Sarah and Victoria and Josh and Sam and Alexandra and Darius on the road….Kyle and Carter…..kids, we suffer with you all, and with the other parents, more than you can ever know. Not that we would want you to. We feel as helpless and out of control as you all at this awful news. Martin County seems cursed with more tragedy than can possibly be absorbed. I can’t justify the rage I feel reading about the boys horrible death without wanting to shout ARE THE REST OF YOU GETTING THIS?????. I am sorry, it seems to just get worse and worse, forgive us parental units for our deep dread and panic on your behalf. We love you all more than you can ever know…ya know???
Cameron’s Mom……my very deepest sympathies to the families.
August 4th, 2009 at 8:09 pm
I would like to send my heart felt condolences to the family and friends of these three boys.As a parent of two teens at South Fork I could never imagine the grief.This is not a time to throw stones. It is a time to mourn. Anyone that uses this tragedy as a pulpit please wait for a few days.
If you are going to judge please have the balls to post your name.
August 4th, 2009 at 8:16 pm
My heart is with you
August 4th, 2009 at 8:19 pm
R.I.P to 3 Great people that all had futures ahead of them. Life is so precious yet so fragile. As humans we all make mistakes, unfortunately they paid the maximum price. Anyone who know of these 3 men know that they were genuinely good people. My prayers go out to the families and to all the friends like myself. Keep ya head up and embrace on the wonderful memories we have shared with Nick Connor and Chris. Physically they are gone but mentally they will always live through us. These 3 men are gone but will never be forgotten.
I’m gonna miss you 3 like hell but i will see you all in heaven.
Never will I forget these 3 guys.
R.I.P too all of them.
Hebb
August 4th, 2009 at 8:36 pm
I do not know these boys, but i know a lot of people that do know them. Whether there was alcohol involved or not who cares at this point. All that matters is that 3 young boys who all had futures instore for them lost thier lives. So stop talking about the bad things and arguing with eachother. RIP
August 4th, 2009 at 9:43 pm
It is a sad day. However, one need not look further than the arrest records or the driver. He has a previous DUI that included injuries and his license was suspended at the time of accident. This was obviously an individual who had little concern of the law and those who he was close to. A true tragedy for the family members of the two boys killed by the driver.
August 4th, 2009 at 9:50 pm
I’m sorry for everyone’s loss.
To everyone: This is not the appropriate forum to preach to, disrespect, or berate the individuals involved or the youth in general.
Young people are going to drink and party. It is unfortunate that it often leads to such tragedy but Stuart, as a community, has seen this time and time again. The Martin County Sheriff’s Office has a bad reputation for harassing young people about things that don’t matter and then breaking up parties and telling kids to get into cars and go home. It happened when I was in high school there and it happens now. Its irresponsible. Something must change but legal prosecution and police “strong-arming” is not the answer. It hasn’t worked thus far and isn’t likely to in the future.
Its a shame that the parents and the community don’t step up and provide alternative means of transportation (without legal repercussions) or safe options for young people (e.g. two free cab rides home per semester, etc). Part of growing up is getting into a bit of trouble here and there but parents should make their children understand that a call home at 2 a.m. for a ride home or cab money is okay and that they will not be faced with punitive action at home or legal action by police.
Don’t talk about problems, talk about solutions. And no, a web course on the dangers of alcohol or more D.A.R.E. programs is not going to help. It never has. Alternatives must be sought.
Punitive action against adolescents does not work. Its their nature to rebel. The community should look at this issue from a sensible and progressive standpoint because tragedies like this are avoidable but it is up to everyone to at least not be complacent.
August 4th, 2009 at 9:54 pm
mark, youre an idiot. The USA consumes much less alcohol per capita than 90% of Europe. I love drinking, yet I wont ever get behind the wheel because i know the consequences. The parents of this driver are apparently not accountable for anything their son does.
August 4th, 2009 at 9:58 pm
Darwin Theory proven again. At least these 3 won’t reproduce as their parents did.
August 4th, 2009 at 10:17 pm
I understand that so many people have different views on the crash. As someone who has lost a very close friends in an horrible car accident just three short years ago, please stop talking about these boys. What has happened happened. There is nothing you can do about it now. Can you imagine if this was one your children, a close friend, or family member. The authorities will figure out what really happened. When people talked about my friend who died in the crash they had all sorts of random BS that was not true. I know that it is heartbreaking to me to see people going at each other on here. The family and friends of these three boys are heartbroken right now. They have lost people they love and have to deal with this being in the news and having people talk about them and their boys. Before you say anything, just think about it if it was your loved one… Would you want someone saying these things about them?
August 4th, 2009 at 10:20 pm
JJ;
that is the most insensitive thing i’ve ever heard. these boys had bright futures ahead of them. Unfortunately this horrible accident has only brought out the mistakes they made. no one is saying drinking and driving is right, but people still do it, thats life. they made a bad choice and now they are gone. mistakes are made daily, some bigger than others. its too bad that this one stopped three amazing kids from there dreams. so try not to be and @ss because people are in deep loss.
RIP boys. <3 CB. NC. & CG.
August 4th, 2009 at 10:21 pm
All you people talking about how sad the friends and family of these guys are… Let’s think for a moment about how many families across the country today buried loved ones who were killed by drunken drivers.
Let’s think about the fact that it’s very likely that two of these three kids were killed by a drunken driver!
But back to those other families. I think that we need to focus more on the harm, or the potential harm, of drunken driving/drivers, and yes, it’s justifiable to be filled with righteous indignation at them.
This forum is not a memorial. We are not beholden to saying only nice, comforting platitudes like, “My thoughts are with you” (which is so overused as to be meaningless these days). This is not the place for family members to come to read compassionate words of solace. Deal with it.
These three reckless youths COULD HAVE KILLED YOU OR ANYONE YOU LOVE. Why are you so quick to forgive/dismiss them?
And for those who excuse their wrongdoing by saying, “Nobody’s perfect,” I say this: It doesn’t take being “perfect” to NOT drink and drive, any more than it takes my being perfect to not deliberately stick a fork into my eye. I either decide to do it, or I decide not to do it. No perfection necessary. Just common sense combined with common decency and regard for one’s fellow man.
Oh, by the way, let’s have an end to the idiotic statements like, “God doesn’t give you anything you can’t handle.” No? How do you explain drug addicts who die in the streets? How do you explain kids who are molested, who then commit suicide years later because of it? I’d say that God let them have stuff they couldn’t handle, wouldn’t you? And, “God took them from us because he needed another angel in heaven”? You gotta be *&#!ing kidding me! God is supposedly infinite and eternal, and yet he “needs” to take a person from earth prematurely, he can’t wait just another 60 or 70 years? He has to have that person NOW? Over the course of the REST OF INFINITY?!
August 4th, 2009 at 10:26 pm
“Friend” said: “no one is saying drinking and driving is right, but people still do it, thats life.”
Well, “Friend,” apply your own standard to what we’ve been saying: People are going to comment with what they think or believe about these boys and their drunken driving deaths–that’s life.
Your statement makes it seem like we should just sit back and accept that kids are going to do moronic things like your friends did.
Some folks will probably speak up now and say that this is a clear call that “we need more anti-drunken-driving outreaches in our schools” and say that we’re not teaching the kids enough that drunken driving is bad. Do you think there is a single kid out there who has not had the message put in front of him that he should NOT DRINK AND DRIVE, BECAUSE DOING SO KILLS?! EVERY kid has been taught this, and still the idiot ones do it. Why? We don’t know. I don’t know. But I hope that the ones who do it take out themselves and only themselves, and not some innocents. But I know that they will… “That’s life.”
August 4th, 2009 at 10:33 pm
pj i hope you burn in hell , you will burn in hell , soon .
August 4th, 2009 at 10:38 pm
The driver had a long rap sheet, this was no simple accident, pure negligence and disregard for those around him.
August 4th, 2009 at 11:00 pm
Hi, I’m an 18 year old teanager from the area, and as I read this article I couldn’t help but to get emotional. After I read the article though I started reading the comments that people have been leaving so far, and it DISGUST me to see that some people are focusing on DRINKING AND DRIVING.
THESE KIDS HAVE FAMILIES, PARENTS, AND CLOSE FRIENDS AND INSTEAD OF THINKING ABOUT ALL THE PAIN THEIR FAMILIES ARE GOING THROUGH SOME ARE SITTING HERE WRITING ABOUT THINGS THAT RIGHT NOW DONT MATTER. WHETHER DRINKING WAS THE CASE, SO BE IT. THERES NOTHING THAT CAN BE DONE NOW.
FOR THE FAMILIES AND FRIENDS OF THESE BOYS, I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, THEY SEEM LIKE WONDERFUL KIDS AND GOD BLESS YOU GUYS.
August 4th, 2009 at 11:02 pm
PJay;
Either you have lost someone in an accident due to drinking or you don’t know what it is like to lose someone. I hope that you never have to go through the pain of losing someone the way these families did. It is something that no one should ever have to deal with.
August 4th, 2009 at 11:21 pm
I just happened to see the headline on the PBPost site, clicked thru to the article. Then saw all these comments. I find it sad that there is ARGUING, stupid personal comments, and BS here in the comments. This is not a forum for airing your views on drunk driving, or media, or teen behavior. At least, it shouldn’t be. Comment as you wish about what happened. But you should not be “emailing” back and forth to each other, attacking each other. That is disrespectful to the dead young men and their family members who might see this. Accidents happen. Sometimes they are caused by bad judgement. Teens die in alcohol related crashes. So do adults. These men were not coming home from work. It’s a sad fact. But let’s not judge, or attack, each other over it. Let’s learn from it and educate other teens about safe driving. Driving at night you need to be careful, whether you’ve been drinking or not. Now please be mature and stop the petty comments, focus on the positive and the future. Thank you.
August 4th, 2009 at 11:24 pm
This was NOT an accident. Look up the definition of accident. It was a recipe for disaster and death. Alcohol + speed + youth: a deadly cocktail. What I hope is that their deaths are not in vain, that others who get behind the wheel of car or get in the car will think twice before turning that ignition key. Sad sad sad and purely preventable. May it happen to no one else.
August 4th, 2009 at 11:51 pm
RIP my brothers , i know your up there already bout to make life hell for these low lifes that have no sorrow for these kids families .
Your in a better place now , Look what this world is coming to this sick people
August 4th, 2009 at 11:51 pm
Nick, and Chris were always fun to be with. I didn’t really know Conner but I’m sure he was the same way. And I’m sure the last thing they want is for people to be fighing about what happened and what played factors in how they died. The only people that know what happened were the boys in the car. Maybe they were argueing or looking for cds or something. Im sure they drank that night, most high school and college kids do. The point is that they are gone, and we shouldnt be fighting about this. They died havin fun. It sucks that they are gone. I mean we were just at graduation and they were talking about how they couldnt believe that we were finally done!!! Their lives were short lived but atleast they lived them to the fullest! And maybe we should learn from them. Live your life to the fullest, but do it in a smart way!!!! We love you boys!!! and we are gonna miss u like crazy
August 4th, 2009 at 11:52 pm
these sick * people having nothing better to do then share there opinion on 3 kids who they know nothing about . Go f yourselves you heartless bast ards
August 5th, 2009 at 12:03 am
Dont blame these guys for living their lives, they made a mistake and payed dearly for it. Now family and friends are left with the burden,the sadness and the life lesson it leaves behind. Their deaths will prevent others from driving home intoxicated. It seems like every other month we lose another friend. Sadly, and realisticly, this wont stop, and thats just a fact of life. The only thing we can do is bite the bullet and wear the embarrassment of asking our closest friends for their keys when they even think about driving home intoxicated. Its so sad and surreal to have a friend make a mistake that costs him/her or others of their life(lives). No parent should ever have to bury their children, we just have to remember these boys and keep them in hearts and minds and not let their deaths be overlooked, and channel our emotion towards preventing future tragedies. And to any idiot that wants to go on here and play JUDGE is just full of shit in my mind. Nick, Chris, and Connor just had an early tee time and our waitin for the rest of us at the clubhouse, God Bless boys! Much Love!
August 5th, 2009 at 12:23 am
It is amazing to me how fast all of these people are to pass judgement on these boys mistakes when they know for a fact they did the same thing when they were younger. Its disgusting to see how insensitive you pricks can be. Nick was an incredible person who truly cared for his friends so for certain pieces of sh#t to say that he had no concern for the others in the car is absolute BS. I think its so pathetic that low life f ups like to get on tcpalm just go make pointless comments about people they know NOTHING about, yet they like to pretend they do. Trying to sterotype them isn’t going to help anything, it just shows how ignorant you really are. It goes back to what your mother taught you when you were 6 — “Nothing nice to say, STFU”. All that matters is 3 young lives were lost in an incident that should have all together been avoided, what a waste. They were all intelligent boys who would have really made something of themselves. It’s so sad this happened to them and I really hope that EVERYONE IN MARTIN COUNTY learns NOT to drink and drive! This should give you all a respectable fear of what could happen if you do. Dying or a dui just isn’t worth it. Treasure life people, you don’t know when it’s going to be up. RIP boys, I’ll love and miss you forever.
August 5th, 2009 at 12:23 am
Alex i understand your hurt. You should not wish death on anyone. Your friends paid a harsh price for what happened that night. You think that worker did not witness what he had seen and was fortunate to get out of the way to save his own life? Quit being selfish, that man is innocent and not only you should learn your lesson, but you should be smacked for your stupidity. I feel sorry for the families and their loss. Quit reading blogs and go do something productive, rather then wishing death upon people.
August 5th, 2009 at 1:03 am
I knew Nick and Connor. They were good people, always great to be around. Never got to know Chris and it’s a shame. RIP guys.
August 5th, 2009 at 1:08 am
Why doesn’t everyone stop yelling at each other? Esp people that don’t know these boys. Alex isn’t an evil person wishing death on strangers; he’s just hurt. Leave him alone. This page should be used to remember our loss, not argue. And no preaching about why drinking & driving is bad. WE KNOW, we just lost some great people.
August 5th, 2009 at 1:08 am
Truth??? Really?? The guy just lost 3 of his brothers, made a dumb comment based on emotion and properly took it back once he settled down, get off his back, hes in mourning like the rest of the friends and families, in my opinion hes got a right to be selfish to an extent. For you to continue to bash him is obsurd. ALSO for you to say that he “needs to learn his lesson” is the most hypocritical statement you ever could’ve made. It has no premise and is by all meens a very false arguement, and is as much skewed as the intial statement by which you are upset about. Just so outlandishly rediculous for you to find more interest in critisizing others than to write something respectful and heartfelt about these three young guys who didnt even live to see 20. Grow up.
August 5th, 2009 at 1:45 am
THE FACTS:
1. ALCOHOL was a MAJOR factor.
2. SPEED was a MAJOR factor.
3. They were 3 teenage boys… and we all know when we are teenagers, or thinking process doesnt necessarily work, HOWEVER we ALL know how bad it was that he drove drunk, I understand that and it could have easily been a family that he plowed into. BUT these 3 young men lost their lives for one AWFUL mistake, A night out drinking before school started again. Who are we to weigh their ONE mistake to the AMAZING things the have probably done through-out their lives? They Paid the Price… these are Just Babies and all of he Drama that i have read here has truly baffled me! Yes UNFORTUNATELY for the INNOCENT VICTIMS, the world does work that way ppl die at NO fault of their own, But it is HORRIBLE to wish that on ANYONE and you should be ASHAMED of yourself. Any friend WOULD never want one of their own to carry the Burden of MURDERING another person SHEESH! My Prayers Go out to The Family and FRIENDS of these young men, My you rest in peace sweet Boys.
August 5th, 2009 at 2:00 am
One More Thing…..To the FRIENDS of the boys, when you go out next time, before drinking and driving, Please think of them and the reason they aren’t with you, they were so very important to you while they were alive, don’t let their death be in vain. Think of them and call someone, We dont need anymore of this! Have Fun But PLEASE DONT DRINK AND DRIVE
August 5th, 2009 at 8:28 am
Pj will go to hell.. im almost positive. and thank you sean for adding that in the end.
these were 3 beautiful people that ill never forget, and who the f is sayin nick had a dui n a record.. ive known that kid almost my entire life.. and i know nothing of the sort, and im sure i would know about those things before you senseless strangers that are nothing but insolent swines waiting to rot in your own bullsh!t. Ya call me selfish.. the fact is that even wat i said an all the other scenerios given are not wat happend.. chris connor and nick aren’t here.. the worked lived.. it wasnt any one elses families besides these three.. no ones parents.. so quit sayin what if cause quite frankly that doesnt matter. Ill see everyone at the services this weekend. and for the person asking how old and immature i am.. Im probobly alot more mature in some aspects then you are.. and im turning 19 on sunday.. later in the month connor n i and another friend were going to have a conjoined birthday celebration.
so thank you inconsiderate pricks.
Have a good day.
August 5th, 2009 at 8:41 am
Drinking or not, when work is being done on the road, there better be plenty of lights on at nite. For the workers safety and the drivers. Not only on the machinery but the driving area as well.
August 5th, 2009 at 8:46 am
speed, under age teens, alcohol, now blame the construction company. parents avoiding their responsibility.
August 5th, 2009 at 9:05 am
We should be more worried about our education system in Martin County. Kids can graduate High School with the dreadful grammar and spelling.
August 5th, 2009 at 9:43 am
CAN WE JUST GET OVER THIS? THIS WAS YESTERDAYS HEADLINE!
August 5th, 2009 at 9:56 am
I THINK TO ALL OF YOU WHO ARE COMING ON HERE AND JUDGING THESE 3 KIDS WHO LOST THERE LIVES SHOULD ALL BE ASHAMNED OF YOUR SELVES. DID YOU EVER HEAR ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE. KEEP YOUR NASTY JUDGEMENTAL REMARKS TO YOU SELF. THREE MEN LOST THERE LIVES NO MATTER WHO WAS IN THE WRONG THIS IS A TERRIBLE SITUATION AND MY PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
August 5th, 2009 at 10:25 am
Alex, man you need to cool down. I’m from the area the accident happened and I think you know as well as I do about how small this area is. Everybody knows everybody in one way or the other. So settle down before you mess things up for yourself in this area. Look, you were way out of line with saying you wished the worker died instead. I’m sure you didn’t mean it but you said it. Just like your friends learned the consequences of their actions, you hopefully will learn the consequences of your actions.
You can say you are as mature as you want but your actions are not supporting your case. To say that we adults don’t know how you feel is immature. I too lost a friend at 21 to drunk driving. I went to high school at Martin County. I though, do not defend my friends actions and never has. I think he was stupid and irresponsible. I still think highly of him but what he did was stupid, end of story. I drink, everyone who knows me knows I love my beer but I don’t drive after drinking. It’s not worth it, it’s not worth losing your life over or killing someone else.
I’m sure these guys were great guys to you and to many others. However, I went to one of their myspace pages. Please tell me that you believe how you guys are acting in those pictures is an example of maturity. He flipped his truck two years ago and did not learn his lesson. Every guy reading these comments knows he was show boating and you know that yourself rather you want to admit it or not.
This is all very unfortunate, I’m sorry for you and your loss and everyone else who was affected by this. I also pray that you and your friends learn from this. Also, for all of you who want to say this is a time for mourning and a time to come together as a community and not a time to talk about drinking and driving, that is 100% BS. If now is not a good time then when is? After the next kid dies? Alex I really pray you learn from this because I’d hate to hear that you are the next to die like this. Also, settle down, it’s tough I know but taking on everyone in this is not the way to handle it. Besides ask yourself this question, are you mad at what people are writing or mad because you just lost your friends and you don’t know how to deal with it?
Oh one last thing, people stop blaming the worker because he may be an immigrant. That is the stupidest thing I’ve heard. It wasn’t his fault and thanks to these kids, he will probably be in therapy for the rest of his life.
August 5th, 2009 at 10:32 am
How can we not focus on Alcohol if this was a contributing factor? What if it had been the other way around and the three boys were killed by a DRUNK driver? Would you all not be outraged at the driver? Come on people! Lets all learn from this tragedy and address the problem.!!!!
August 5th, 2009 at 10:33 am
POPS….You are right. And on Saturday night 3 other young men lost there lives to an accident in the Keys! Did that not open the eyes of others?? Did the youth in Palm Beach, Martin, and Okeecheobee counties not see that tragedy unfold?? To educate our teens today about drinking and driving is a “dead” end road!
Moral of the story is that 3 more young men are gone from this earth. The families and friends need time to heal, that healing will take a long time!
Jarski, all of this that you are reading will just make you even more mad! People have the freedom to speak their mind. You need to concentrate on your friends families. They need your help. Take care!!
August 5th, 2009 at 10:34 am
DONT DRINK AND DRIVE & THEY MIGHT STILL BE ALIVE!! ITS THAT SIMPLE!!!
August 5th, 2009 at 10:34 am
PJ
I back you 100% man. Sorry if that offends Alex or anyone else but everything you say is right on.
August 5th, 2009 at 10:40 am
As a staunch supporter of MADD~Mothers Against Drunk Drivers, and having lost a family member for a careless irresponsible drunk driver, I say everyone of these young teenagers needs to take a good look in the mirror and be glad that if they have been drinking and driving realize that they have been very lucky it was not them. Let this be your wake up call!! PLEASE!!!! Dont let these 3 boys die in vain. Learn from this!!!!!!
August 5th, 2009 at 10:48 am
AND ALL OF YOU BIG MOUTHS ARE SO SURE HE HAD ALCOHOL IN HIS SYSTEM….I DID NOT KNOW WE HAD SO MANY MEDICAL EXAMINERS IN THE WORLD….MIND YOUR BISSINESS PEOPLE
August 5th, 2009 at 10:55 am
Ok, I’m gonna sound like an ass here but I can’t help it. Stephanie, learn how to read, every story says it. The cop said there is NO question about it. If he is saying that then don’t you think maybe there was some bottles or something in the car that they found to support that statement. I’m not a doctor but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night where I learned how to read. Damn, sorry, couldn’t resist but come on people, facts are facts. It sucks but it’s their fault. Stop being stupid and trying to blame someone else. Man I need to take my own advice and cool down.
August 5th, 2009 at 10:55 am
May these boys RIP!! My heart goes out to the families and friends of the Nick, Connor and Chris.
August 5th, 2009 at 11:07 am
I KNOW HOW TO READ HONEY GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT IT HAS NOT BEEN PROVED YET NOW HAS IT…SO LEARN HOW NOT TO ASSUME THINGS AND YOU ARE RIGHT YOU DID MAKE YOUR SELF LOOK LIKE AN ASS…GOOD JOB.
August 5th, 2009 at 11:12 am
ONE MORE THING FOR YOU JACK….ARE YOU GOD???? CAUSE THE LAST TIME I CHECKED HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES THE JUDGING.IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT THE COPS FOUND UNTIL I HEAR ITS CONFIRMED THAT ALOCHOL WAS IN HIS SYSTEM NO ONE KNOWS. SO AGAIN I WILL TELL YOU STOP ASSUMING AND JUDGING.
August 5th, 2009 at 11:15 am
Call us insolent swines waiting to rot in our bullsh!t?
Less mature than you?
Stay on target and stop looking for a fight, you’ll lose.
Martin County records show Alex Jarski has a ticket for careless driving on 3/29/2009 and his license was suspended 5/16/2009.
https://www2.myfloridacounty.com/ccm/do/personCaseSearch?county=43
Just got your license re-instated Monday, driving almost 3 months without a license.. another trainwreck waiting to happen.
Another Inconsiderate prick
August 5th, 2009 at 11:24 am
Well Stephanie, let me know when God calls you with the blood test. I think the cops have a bit more evidence then you and no it does not say it is not confirmed. It says the speed is unconfirmed. It says there is NO QUESTION about the alcohol. I’m not passing judgement on them. Is drinking and driving an inteligent thing to do? Would you do it? Everyone of us does stupid things, that’s human nature. What they did was stupid, plain and simple. Would you hold a gun to your head and keep pulling the trigger without looking to see if there was a bullet inside? You and everyone else needs to come to the realization that they made a stupid mistake and it cost them their lives. Stop blaming everyone else for their mistakes and learn from them. You can sit here and say whatever you want about me but I atleast take the blame for my stupid mistakes. I even said I was an ass before I wrote what I last said to you. I take responsibility for my actions. Now you and your friends need to grow up and take responsibility for your actions and stop blaming everyone for your loses.
August 5th, 2009 at 11:34 am
I DID NOT BLAME ANYONE ELSE….I SAID STOP JUDGING…IT IS A HORRIBLE THING THAT HAPPEND AND NO MATTER WHAT CAUSED IT…THERE IS NO BRINGING THEM BACK AND ITS SAD AND HOPEFULLY A LESSON LEARNED. I DONT HAVE TIME TO ARGUE BACK AND FORTH GOD BLESS AND BE SAFE
August 5th, 2009 at 11:37 am
i wasnt drivin for any of that time.. :]
August 5th, 2009 at 11:43 am
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey.
While we are mourning the loss of our friends, loved ones, others are rejoicing to meet them behind the veil.
Although it’s difficult today to see beyond the sorrow,
May looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow.
My brother died in 1995 at the age of 17 in a head-on collision and I survived at the age of 12 now 28 and at 12 I couldnt understand why and at 28 I still cant understand why and dont think I ever will. I understand the pain that will never go away but I pray you all can overcome somehow someway. My deepest Condolences to all who new them.
August 5th, 2009 at 12:07 pm
To Brody who made the comment about the driver having a DUI and being suspended, you are TOTALLY WRONG and need to get your facts straight before you shoot your mouth off. I have known Nick since he was a in elementary school, we was the sweetest , most polite and respectable young man. My thoughts and prayers go out to all 3 families and my wish is that other young people will learn the lesson these 3 boys have just taught us all - Don’t Drink and Drive and call your parents if you have.
August 5th, 2009 at 12:14 pm
rest in peace
chris connor & nick
you guys will never be forgotten
& to all you people who didnt even know
them, please stop with your rude
remarks. put urself in our shoes for a sec
& think about how we feel after these 3 losses we had.
August 5th, 2009 at 12:42 pm
It’s amazing to what lengths some of you idiots will go to try and hurt someone here already suffering. Lets have all your full names so we can all do backround checks on YOU and see how perfect you all are. Maybe we could do a credit check too. Idiots with nothing else to do. How pathetic!
August 5th, 2009 at 12:45 pm
I did not know these boys, but my two best friend died this past year in a car accident. For all of you people who are writing rude & hateful things about these boys, it hurts their families and friends because yes they do come on here and read them. Keep your opinions to yourself if you are going to be so rude. My thoughts & prayers are with their friends & families <3
August 5th, 2009 at 12:55 pm
Jarski, please stop. All of the arguing in the world isn’t going to bring them back, and it isn’t going to change anyone’s mind.
You and your friends, and Nick, Connor and Chris’ families need this time to grieve. Please take yourself away from this site and go spend time with your friends and family, and use this time to reflect on the good times that you had with your friends that have passed.
I do think that this will be a learning experience for many of the kids at South Fork that knew these boys. My son is one of them, and he will be attending all of the funerals. It is a sad, harsh lesson, one that I learned at a young age when I lost 2 family members to a drunk driver. It made a huge impression on me and the choices I’ve made since then. I sincerely hope that this tragedy leaves the same lasting impression on these kids.
My heart goes out to the families of these boys.
August 5th, 2009 at 1:01 pm
Did any of these kids have an xbox 360?
August 5th, 2009 at 1:12 pm
My sincere condolences to the family and friends of these three young men.
Now, I am sure they were great guys and did not deserve to die, but they did. Why, if their friends are honest with themselves they know why. I was young once, and liked to party, you know smoke and drink. One night I ended up going through a car’s windshield from the back seat. Me, a seat belt wearer, not that night. Me, a passenger in a car whose driver decided to race the other guy who we just got done partying with. As we approached a slower vehicle in the right lane, I knew from his racy, reckless driving style the other driver would not slow down for that slow vehicle in his lane, and we played chicken with that car as we tried to keep him from getting in front of us. The guy we were racing would not slow down, and we were right on top of that slower vehicle. At the last second our friend in the other car cut over between the slow vehicle and our car. I don’t know how he made it! The driver of the car I was in freaked out and lost control because it was so close, an inch at most it seemed. We went careening through a ditch and hit a big telephone pole. That was the last thing I remember until I woke up on the ground in front of the pole bleeding profusely from a gash in my head. I gave the other cars driver my stash and staggered to a police car to sit down. My friend who was driving broke his arm. I was lucky, I could have hit that pole as I was being ejected from the car. We all could have died that night. My mother had already lost her other son(my half-brother) in a car accident, so I don’t know how she would have coped if I had been killed.
From that day forward I have always worn my seat belt, and taken my responsibility for my passenger seriously. I like to race, goof off, get a little daring behind the wheel. But not in traffic, not on the road, not with passengers.
This tragedy is senseless and could have been easily avoided. While you are posting pictures and poetry and notes at the memorial sight, consider this, post a picture of the smashed vehicle, pictures of the grieving family and friends, pictures to remind those that are witness to the sight that these fine young men need not have died, but for one careless moment brought about by their actions earlier in the evening. So grieve for them, remember them in good times, but do not forget what happened and why. Do not make their deaths become in vain by allowing yourself to take similar chances. Life is good and fun but be careful, remember these young men and the grief that followed their untimely deaths, and think about how your friends and family would feel if some terrible accident took you away from them.
Once again my sincere condolences to family and friends, may these young men rest in peace.
August 5th, 2009 at 1:33 pm
First things first, RIP Connor, Chris, and Nick. Ive known you guys for a while and im going to miss you guys for even longer. My thoughts and prayers go out to their families. And for the people who are leaving these vindictive comments just stop. Us friends and family don’t need it. While im not condoning their actions (lets face it guys this drinking and driving shit needs to stop) show some respect for the deceased and their families. These were the three nicest, funniest, and most down to earth kids ive ever known. Also my prayers go out to Brandi Koors, I am so sorry for your loss!!!
August 5th, 2009 at 1:45 pm
This is so ridiculous. Three boys have lost their lives, and just hours after people on here are just trying to instigate arguments. Alex seems emotional which is understandable, along with many of their friends! I graduated from South Fork high school last year, after moving to Florida my Freshmen year, Chris was so openly friendly…always saying a hello or goodbye. The whole group of those friends would do anything for anyone! Do you honestly think that they care what people have to say on this site?? I can assure you none of the three boys families nor friends care to hear the negative comments you have to leave. The boys lived a quality life, short, but they lived each day.
August 5th, 2009 at 4:03 pm
Nick was one of the greatest characters I’ve had the privilage of knowing, we will all miss you more than you know, r.i.p. <3
August 5th, 2009 at 6:47 pm
okay i think some of you people are going way overboard with this situation, there is no need to go searching for their myspace to see what they do in their spare time. You need to mind your own business and stay out of their lives. honestly, who cares If someone drinks alcohol or smokes weed? does that make them a bad person? of course not. You need to find something better to do with your life then spending time on the computer all day looking up what people you don’t even know do in their spare time.
I am sorry to hear what happened, but some of the hatters who comment here need to piss off.
August 6th, 2009 at 12:00 am
To Tim’s post above “Who cares if someone drinks alcohol or smokes weed?” I think that the family members of the two passengers cared that the drive “Nick” was drinking and doing whatever else. It makes him a bad person since he killed himself and the two passengers.
August 6th, 2009 at 3:26 pm
As a parent to 4 children my heart just broke when my son told me about what happened to these kids.
My deepest sympathies and prayer go out their parents and families…
No matter what caused this accident it doesn’t change the fact that they are gone, i only hope that their friends will learn from this and will think twice themselves..
God Bless ,
Kim
August 6th, 2009 at 5:58 pm
3 sense-less deaths. 3 tragedies. 3 lost souls. 3 reasons to never drink and drive again. live and learn from your own mistakes and the mistakes made by the ones you love. life is too short to live any other way. and no matter “how the world works” we need to deal the hand that was dealt to us. no matter how shitty our cards are. rest in peace and honor boys, and my heart mourns for the family and friends involved in this tragic reality check.
August 16th, 2009 at 3:28 pm
just like i have been saying it was the wrong place at the wrong time. no need to judge them for driving drunk because it happens all the time just some people get lucky.
kids are always going to find someway to get alcohol and people are going to drive, nothing is ever going to completly stop it so show some sympathy and leave your nasty commments in your head because no one cares
August 16th, 2009 at 3:29 pm
party it up like they did, because tomorrow could be your last like theirs. They had fun that night im sure and thats all that matters.
August 16th, 2009 at 3:30 pm
and if you dont like it fk your boring life because i will have fun living mine like they did <3
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