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Man born at Martin Memorial needs public’s help to find his birth mother

June 29th, 2009 by TCPalm.com

John Christopher Woods is hoping his photos and additional information about his birth parents he has been able to extract from the Florida Department of Children and Families will trigger memories in someone on the Treasure Coast, maybe even his mother or siblings.

Woods, born Jan. 16, 1961, at Martin Memorial Hospital, said he feels he is creeping closer to identifying and perhaps meeting his birth mother, but her name and location are still elusive. His mother was 24 when she gave birth to him and then gave him up for adoption.

Former Scripps Treasure Coast Newspapers columnist Geoff Oldfather wrote about Woods in March, but so far he hasn’t located his mother.

“I do have some medical issues and have been put on disability,” Woods said, “which is one of the reasons I want to find out exactly who was in the family. The biggest thing is to meet my birth mother and to meet any half-brothers or half-sisters I might have.”

In addition, Ruthie Woods, John’s adoptive mother, has the beginning of Alzheimer’s and he is trying to find out as much about his parents as possible before it becomes too difficult for her to remember. His adoptive father, Lawrence, died in 2000.

Josette P. Marquess, director of the Florida Adoption Reunion Registry, gave Woods some information about his mother, based on a statement made by his birth mother at the time she gave him up for adoption.

“If I want any more information, I have to spend $350 to open my case in Vero Beach, Indian River County, where the adoption was finalized,” said Woods. “I’m hoping my mother didn’t leave the area and go back to a northeastern state. One thing that was odd was that she was on $112 a month from Social Security at the time I was born, which could mean there was a disability, although she didn’t indicate she had any medical problems. That doesn’t make sense to me.”

Woods said he has nothing against his mother for what she did, since she only did what she thought was best.

But, there was a wistful tone to his voice, when he said, “I wish she would have kept me. No matter what the circumstances, I just really want to meet her.”

Do you recognize the description of John Woods’ birth parents?

John Woods’ mother:

Was born in a northeastern state in the winter of 1937, which would have made her 23 or 24 at his birth

Was of Italian descent

Was a Roman Catholic and wanted her child raised as a Catholic

Was of medium height, with a dark complexion and “coal black” shoulder-length hair

Was the youngest of seven children

Left school in the seventh grade to go to work

Was primarily employed in meat markets and grocery stores as a packer and meat cutter

Had never married as of 1961

Was unemployed at the time of Woods’ birth, and lived on $112 a month from Social Security

John Woods’ father

Met Woods’ mother at a grocery store

Worked for a linen company

Dated her for approximately two months

Talked to her of plans for marriage

Told her he was single

When he learned of the pregnancy, told her he was married and had four children

Lived in a ‘nearby town’

Have information?

Anyone who thinks they know who John Woods’ parents are can contact him at (386) 752-0604 or via e-mail at sunnycrochet@att.net.

By Kit Bradshaw, TCPalm.com

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5 Responses to “Man born at Martin Memorial needs public’s help to find his birth mother”

  1. R Says:

    This is why people do not put kids up for adoption, and just get abortions…

    We need a better way…

  2. Andrew Pereira Says:

    I hope that you can find you, B/mother, the best of look to you.
    Adoptions should be public information, in the past this was something that no one talked about…And worked supposedly…For the children and parents
    But now in the 21 Century, we need to change the laws with some exceptions, more and more every day you read about diseases that can not be cure, unless you get help from a direct parent or sibling.

  3. Maria Says:

    How can “R” make such an idiotic remark such as equating abortion to giving your child up for adoption. When you elect to kill your child there is little or no love but giving up your loving child because you cannot care for it is an act of bravery.
    My son adopted a little boy from China whose mother could not care for him because of a severe cleft palette. In May he had his fourth operation and he is doing fine. We love him as much as we love our other grandchildren. And yes, my son will take him back to China someday to the area he was born in. Together, they will also give back to the orphanage who cared for him. My son has set up a foundation in his name.
    He is thriving in this country and partakes of all that is offered to him. His mother performed a profound act of love. We feel so gifted that he is now a member of our family and our son just loves him dearly. Thank You God.

  4. PROVEN GUILTY Says:

    Maria, stop beating your Bible. We have the right to CHOICE.

  5. lynette Says:

    proven guilty.. before you degrade someone else and religon.. learn to spell… its we have the right to choose…
    and maria i totally agree….

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